{"id":3475,"date":"2011-09-18T11:03:03","date_gmt":"2011-09-18T15:03:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/silvercpu.com\/blog\/?p=3475"},"modified":"2011-09-18T11:03:03","modified_gmt":"2011-09-18T15:03:03","slug":"does-this-mean-im-an-adult","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/silvercpu.com\/?p=3475","title":{"rendered":"Does This Mean I&#8217;m an Adult?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I went to my new gynecologist this week. He&#8217;s a dude. I tried to find a woman in my area with good reviews that accepted my insurance, but there were none. He was super nice though. I told him I switched gynecologists because mine didn&#8217;t deliver babies up by where I live. You know you&#8217;ve reached your scary age when people stop telling you you&#8217;re too young to be thinking about having kids. I appreciate the non judgement, but I am too young, don&#8217;t you think? Anyone? <\/p>\n<p>I might be old enough, but I&#8217;d still rather wait at least another year. I mean, once you have one, you can&#8217;t take it back. I really like my life right now. I didn&#8217;t have much fun in high school or college. I spent a lot of my time working on my site. Now that that&#8217;s my job, I&#8217;m discovering new hobbies and I spend my free time doing traditional fun stuff like, you know, socializing.<\/p>\n<p>Babies are a lot of work. I feel like a dog would be too much work, never mind a baby. I can&#8217;t keep the house clean now. And they&#8217;re expensive. I&#8217;m not saving a whole lot of money right now. Granted it&#8217;s been a super expensive year, but with a baby, it will always been a super expensive year.<\/p>\n<p>And despite the positive things Rachelle has to say about daycare, I really hate the idea of leaving my kid for 40+ hours a week with someone, well, who isn&#8217;t me. I realize that this will always be an issue as long as I&#8217;m working and we need me to be working, but it really bothers me. I can work from home several days a week, but only if I&#8217;m not the primary caregiver for a child while I&#8217;m working, which makes sense. That&#8217;s still probably the best option, though I hate working from home.<\/p>\n<p>Then of course there&#8217;s the whole pregnancy and childbirth thing. No seasonale, no painkillers NO ZYRTEC. And oh the decisions to make. It&#8217;s not just drugs vs no drugs, breast feeding or formula it&#8217;s do you want to give birth in the hospital, birthing center, home? Which hospital, which doctor, c-section or natural? Lying down, squatting, in water? I&#8217;d like to be drugged up, but I also think I&#8217;d rather have gravity on my side&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>The only thing I know for sure is that my kid is getting vaccinated. Vaccinations only protect us as a society if the great majority of people do it. I think it&#8217;s incredibly selfish and dangerous to not vaccinate. \/end rant<\/p>\n<p>Um, yeah, I was just going to write a paragraph about how my new doctor is cool, but I guess I got off topic a little. Hey, who watched Ringer last week? That looks pretty decent, right? Work picnic at the beach Friday, that was&#8230; not worth $18. How many days until Italy?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I went to my new gynecologist this week. He&#8217;s a dude. I tried to find a woman in my area with good reviews that accepted my insurance, but there were none. He was super nice though. I told him I switched gynecologists because mine didn&#8217;t deliver babies up by where I live. 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